Honey, So…I’m Thinking About Becoming A Porn Star…

I have been doing nude modeling for a year now and would really like to expand and shoot porn. I don’t even know where to start in regards to telling my boyfriend. I was nude modeling before we started going out, so he was OK with that. I’m not sure how he would react to me being with another guy if I did porn. Any advice?

Jen, 20, OH

 

Jen,

Provided you are of legal age to pursue a career in adult, I think you should first take into consideration the fact that your boyfriend may not be supportive of your decision. If he isn’t, have you asked yourself whether you are willing to risk your relationship over it? Is working in adult more important to you than your relationship? There is no right answer to this question and it’s completely fine if you choose adult over your boyfriend. I just want you to approach this situation as realistically as possible and understand that the percentage of non-industry people who are completely comfortable and confident with their partner working in front of the camera inside of the industry is incredibly small.

Secondly, I’d research exactly what working in adult entails and what kind of career you would be interested in. What is your main reason to pursue a career in adult? Are you doing it for the right reasons for you in the long run?

Finally, once you’ve answered all of the relevant questions within yourself and weighed the risks, I’d let him know your reasons for why pursuing an adult career is important for you and give him the opportunity to share his opinion about it. The more confident you are with your own decision, the better equipped you will be at communicating that to him.

However, make sure you don’t hold back any details. Don’t sugarcoat. If you plan on ‘doing it all’ in adult (gang bangs, double penetration, etc.) let him know those are your intentions. It is better to lay it all on the table and gauge one’s response than trying to sugarcoat now and pay for it later.

I really wish you the best of luck. Maybe we’ll be working together one day!

Jacky
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