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Last-Minute Ideas to Make it a Lustful Time for Pairs and Singles!
The pandemic has definitely put a damper on how people typically do romantic things but don’t let that ruin your Valentine’s Day (or night) plans! Give romance a squeeze this year and keep yourself safe, sane, and sexy with some alternative ideas for love season.
Usually, couples like to go out on a nice, romantic date – dinner, maybe a movie or dancing. If that’s still your vibe, recreate it at home. Make it even more romantic by cooking together! Feeling really adventurous? Wear only your aprons! You’ll definitely appreciate your partner’s buns when they’re putting something in the oven or digging in the fridge. Then, before dinner, change into something date-worthy or very sexy. The kitchen foreplay will give you something to talk about and tease over during dinner, then you can let the sparks fly afterward.
Want to surprise your partner with something other than roses or candy? Grab a sexy new bedroom accessory! A new toy or bedroom game can help to open communication and bring you closer together. Keep it simple if you aren’t too familiar with your partner’s desires. Showing that you’re invested in your partner’s pleasure will go a lot further than a dozen roses that will start to wilt in a few days.
Another sexy at home idea is painting – each other! Strike a sexy pose for each other and take turns painting your best efforts. Use body-safe paint and explore painting onto each other after. This is going to be a messy, but fun date. Put a drop cloth on top of your sheets to protect them or take the messy party straight to the shower to clean off together.
Still, want to go out, but not “out-out” for Valentine’s Day? You could take a day walk or hike or find a secluded area to stargaze together and cuddle under the stars. These activities will get you out of the house, into nature, and in a space where you can express yourselves more openly. They’re also totally free, so it’s easy on the budget.
If you’re flying solo but still want to feel some love this Valentine’s Day, don’t feel left out. Don’t think of the day as something only for couples. Take it as a day for self-love and self-reflection. Use the day to appreciate yourself and your strength. Do things that make you feel loved and special.
Treat yourself to breakfast in bed – yes, even if you have to make it yourself. Sometimes the best breakfast is the one you take the time to make and really savor. Don’t let this breakfast be your regular bowl of cereal or toast and coffee. Put a little extra effort into it. This is your LOVE breakfast. Show yourself some love with it – do something a little decadent, even if it is adding a scoop of ice cream onto a frozen waffle.
Have you inventoried your toy collection in the last year? It’s probably time for an upgrade. Not just because technologies have changed or the materials of your older accessories are starting to dull. But because it’s nice to explore new things and treat your body to something better. Orgasms are, sometimes, your best friend, and the nicest gift you can give yourself. They help to reduce stress, allow you to sleep better, and can even perk you up if you’re feeling a little sluggish.
Have solo friends? Throw a digital dance party. Jump a Zoom call and have a Valentine’s Day party. Put on some fun music and dance the night away with your single friends. Chat it up and enjoy the good company. It’s a great way to connect with friends you haven’t talked to in years who live across the country, too. Spread some love with those you care about.
Valentine’s Day is for everyone. It’s about sharing and showing love, in whatever form. It doesn’t have to be expensive or complicated. Love yourself and love others.
- Sexpert Sara
Sara Star is a Master Sexpert certified through Loveology University. She also is an award-nominated adult performer. Follow her online on Twitter @sarastarxxx.
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